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Secret History
Of the light in my room:
Its mood swings,
Dark-morning glooms,
Summer ecstasies.
Spider on the wall,
Lamp burning late,
Shoes left by the bed,
I’m your humble scribe.
Dust balls, simple souls
Conferring in the corner.
The pearl earring she lost,
Still to be found.
Silence of falling snow,
Night vanishing without trace,
Only to return.
I’m your humble scribe.
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My Life In Poetry
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Clean the dirt from the tin box
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Under the cracked paint find the rust
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It's war torn and sepia-colored now, parchment like, but the little scrap of paper containing this verse has long been a treasure of mine, a template for any poem I write.
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Titled "To Myself About Writing Poems," this verse has been posted within my line of sight wherever I work. Its first home 30 years ago was atop the carriage return of my old manual Smith-Corona. Next it sat atop my IBM Selectric; then on my Mac 512. As I write this it sits as a little flag on one corner of my laptop. I have no idea where the verse came from or who wrote it, but I've often longed to read other poems that came from that author: I sense instinctively that they would be wonderful.
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The verse echoes Elizabeth Barrett Browning's advice to her fellow poets: "Keep back nothing." I've long put into poems what I couldn't bear to express out loud, thoughts that were too painful, embarrassing, or revealing. Emily Dickinson pulled no punches. She said "I know it is poetry if it blows the top of my head off." I'm with Emily. I know I'm onto something if I find myself cringing as I compose one, or stop for a sharp intake of breath before plunging on to the next line.
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I have read many times about the resurgence of interest in poetry since the tragedy of 9/11, both the writing and reading of it. It seems the same renaissance has resulted from CoVid. It is no surprise to me: it is a place to go when all other comforts fail us.
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When my mother was ill many years ago, poetry was a place for me to put my anger and despair. At night in her home I wrote about what I saw, what I felt. Many of the stories conveyed in these poems I have never told aloud. It was invariably the details that I would focus on in those pieces: the way her hair rose from her forehead, the incongruity of gorgeous summer days piling one upon another while she lay in that bedroom, the sunlight that flooded her bedside table crowded with medications, the way a particular slant of light fell on her face as she slept.
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Before you wake this time
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"May I Have This Dance?" was written the week after she died. Writing this one was a way of helping me deal with a wearisome guilt that lingered. The poem relates what happened on one of her better days that last summer. As I changed her bedding, she had asked me to dance with her to a song on the radio, the way she so often did, ceremoniously, when I was a child. Impatient with her and expecting the nurse at any moment, I refused offhandedly.
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And we stand mired in the here and now
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Waiting for the doorbell to ring.
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In Grade Eight, I had an unrelenting crush on a tall lanky boy in my class. His family moved to 0ur backwater from Chicago. He could play "Greensleeves" by ear on the piano and was the first boy I had ever paid much attention to. We were fast friends and hung around with a large group of boys and girls. One day while walking home from school he presented me with a small navy blue velvet box, and my heart stopped. Inside was a ring with one perfect pearl atop it. As I caught my breath he asked if I might give it to a girl, a mutual friend, on his behalf, since he felt intimidated at the prospect.
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I declined angrily, ran home holding back tears and committed my grief to paper. I only remember the piece sketchily now, something along the lines that no one would ever love me enough to give me something so impossibly beautiful. It doesn't rank as one of my more transcendent efforts and ran about 14 verses. But in an indefinable way, it helped get me back on my feet. The catharsis had begun.
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A later poem is my advice to a former boyfriend after the callous way he left me. Called "Parallax," it reads in part:
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My memory has been good to you since you left,
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taken you and buffed your sharp edges,
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edited your conversation for wit, sensitivity.
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I wouldn't advise that you come back.
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Even your eyes aren't that blue.
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This piece served as a place for me to put my disillusionment, my heartache. It was also pure therapy, the chance to tell him off. It somehow blunted the dull ache.
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My father's death many years ago was sudden, as the result of an accident, and it was several months before I was able to give form to my loss. When the poems came, they came in a torrent, over the course of many long nights, as always describing specific moments, tiny details of times together: one twilight evening at a community pool when he watched me execute a dive he had taught me...catching a glimpse of him as he sat unawares by my mother's hospital bed... a description of his lovely, soulful hands lying still atop a bed sheet... after his death finding an old photo of myself and my two sisters tucked deep in his bedroom dresser drawer.
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and I'd forgotten it existed,
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wondered how it ended up here
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No reason why you would put it there,
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except, and now I see the reason:
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you knew a day would come
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Under the cracked paint find the rust...scrape to where it's raw...
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Writer Marc André called poetry "the sister of sorrow," to me a worthy definition. When people read my poems for the first time their reaction is often the same. "Why are they all so sad?" The poet Shelley had the perfect retort. "Our sweetest songs are those that tell of saddest thought."
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It is always poems that have provided my touchstone, helping me time and again to come to terms with this life of mine.
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They will always be my sweetest songs.
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You could call me obsessed
or a fool. There's no future
turning your insides out
arranging words until they're
comfortable with each other.
And the pay! Just this morning
a check arrived in the mail
for fifteen dollars, for a poem
it took forty years to write.
Standing on the corner
looking hungry and tired, the
Veteran of a Thousand Wars
does better on a bad day.
I show you
how I feel inside, how my daughter
whores for drug money, and my son
ransoms his future for a soul.
I tell you how my father
forgot my name, and my mother
went to the electric table
to have her mind rearranged.
I tell you how I prayed for grace
and was given pain, to show
that all prayers are answered.
I've shown you how I died
three times, yet here I am,
Lazarus and Buddha, my
victim and savior. All this
for fifteen dollars and a year's
subscription. If I didn't have a job
at the factory, sweeping floors
on the graveyard shift …
And I've shown
where I buried myself, covered
my walls with books and paintings,
how I talk to them and they say
This is what you've always wanted.
I am my prisoner and my warden.
I tell you how a passing image
makes me rise, and how love
leaves me cold. I sleep alone
in a king-size bed
and spill myself. I confess
in public. I publish my shame.
I don't judge anymore.
I've forgotten how to pray, unless
this is a prayer.
And now I arrange my life
in code, knowing you decipher
more than I show.
They can keep
their fifteen dollars. They insult me!
All I want from life
is sainthood and some poems
that will last. I lied early:
the future is all there is. My gift
is my present to myself, this day's
condensation of memory.
It saves my life.
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For women, then, poetry is not a luxury. It is a vital necessity of our existence. It forms the quality of the light within which we predicate our hopes and dreams toward survival and change, first made into language, then into idea, then into more tangible action. Poetry is the way we help give name to the nameless so it can be thought. The farthest horizons of our hopes and fears are cobbled by our poems, carved from the rock experiences of our daily lives.
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Simply too good not to share.. Bioluminescence There’s a dark so deep beneath the sea the creatures beget their own light. This feat, this fact of adaptation, I could say, is beautiful though the creatures are hideous. Lanternfish. Hatchetfish. Viperfish. I, not unlike them, forfeited beauty to glimpse the world hidden by eternal darkness. I subsisted on falling matter, unaware …
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The Music of Leaving, my collection of poetry, is available to order.
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